Real Time Processing

The contents of Lavender Wheat has the gained perspective of a little time and space away from the initial shock and grief of losing a loved one. However, I also wrote a lot in the middle of the very thing happening (writing keeps me sane, and I didn’t want to walk this alone): Those writings can be found here. So if you find yourself grieving from any of the many heinous forms in which life gets broken, I hope you find shared language from someone who has walked the darkness too and found the light in the hardest of days.